On February 14 RC Sproul Jr edited his Wikipedia page and gave the following explanation for the edit, "I am RC Sproul Jr. and I do not want my previous wife mentioned by name. She is not a significant part of my life."
Anyone not familiar with RC Sproul Jr's family history could reasonably assume from his comment that he and his "previous wife" had divorced. That's the common usage of "previous wife." But, no, he and Denise did not divorce. Denise Elizabeth Sproul passed away on December 18, 2011 after a protracted battle with cancer (leukemia), thus making Denise the "late wife" of RC Sproul Jr.
How did RC Sproul Jr fare in living up to that commitment? For the first 5 years, pretty well. Then in 2016 the commitment of honoring the legacy of Denise Sproul began to erode. The new agenda evolved into throwing Denise Sproul under the bus. Even prior to that though the Sproul children would be thrown under the bus. It came on the heels of RC Jr marrying the 3-times divorced Lisa C. Ringel. She demanded the subordination of all eight Sproul kids (including the married-with-children adults) and their acceptance of Lisa as their "new mother." Lisa manifested intense jealousy for the loyalties the Sproul children had for Denise. As the stench of RC Jr and Lisa Sproul's self-absorbed "sacred marriage" grew ever more odious their slanders grew worse by the day. By 2020 RC Sproul Jr publicly alleged Denise Sproul was guilty of "marital unfaithfulness." Those of us who knew Denise Sproul and the circumstances in which she lived, and moreover those of us who knew RC, knew he had to be lying.
Denise Sproul, who "is not a significant part of" RC Jr's life, among many other things bore him six children, tenderly and compassionately raised those children, homeschooled those children, and gave of herself humbly and unselfishly in every conceivable way for those children, all the more so for RC Jr. She and RC Jr also adopted two more children. Though Denise is no longer present with them physically she remains a significant part of the lives of her children.
This isn't the first time RC Sproul Jr has attempted to cancel Denise Sproul. We previously documented how RC Jr destroyed any Sproul family photos that contained images of Denise. RC Jr also took down Denise's Facebook (her children successfully appealed to Facebook to have it restored as a memorial to her). RC Jr's attempts to cancel Denise and publicly trash her hurts the Sproul children deeply. It's clear that hurting them is by design, all in retaliation for their not accepting Lisa as their "new mother." He's been attacking his children since 2016, publicly trashing them months prior to throwing their mother under the bus. Hurting his family, while playing the innocent victims, also appears to be he and Lisa's primary objective in his podcast series, "Sacred Marriage Under Fire." RC Jr's incompetence with conflict resolution, and refusal to be a peacemaker, are yet more evidence of his disqualifications to be a pastor.
Not only has RC Jr disowned his late wife, he's also disowned his children. They too are no longer a significant part of his life. In fact they're not a part of his life at all -- not by their choice but by his. He's cut them off. That includes refusing to have anything to do with his children's children.
RC Jr's two adopted minor sons remain in his house, raised by he and his second wife. They forbid their sons' communication with any other family members. They've enforced that prohibition by confiscating their sons' phones and internet access.
In spite of the family estrangement, an alienation that RC Sproul Jr is entirely responsible for fomenting, he started a church and masquerades as a "Pastor" and "shepherd." He even started a bible college, naming it Shepherd's College. What qualifies RC Sproul Jr to be a pastor? Contrary to his opinion, being the namesake of a famous theologian doesn't qualify him. The fruit of RC Sproul Jr's scandalous life, when held up to scripture (Titus 1:5-9 and 1 Timothy 3:1-7), makes it abundantly clear that RC Sproul Jr is manifestly disqualified from serving in the office of pastor, teacher, theologian, evangelist, elder or even just a deacon.
Among other biblical requirements: "4 He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, 5 for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church?"
This is just common sense. How could anyone be so foolish as to trust a man to be a pastor when he's proven himself to be abusive and even criminally negligent of his own family members? A man who's negligent, abusive, and autocratic to his family is very likely to be negligent, abusive, and autocratic to his church congregation. With his defrocking in 2006 for "spiritual abuse," i.e. bullying and threatening his congregants (not to mention "duplicity" and a host of other charges, some even criminal), RC Sproul Jr proved he was unfit to pastor. Rather than stepping down he evaded the discipline of his Presbytery and continued masquerading as a pastor. RC Jr was actively encouraged to rebel against his Presbytery by Doug Phillips, Doug Wilson, Kevin Swanson, and James McDonald, not to mention his many fanboys. If RC Jr learned anything at all from being defrocked he learned how to buck accountability and continue on his merry way like nothing had changed. Encouraged in his rebellion by many of his adoring fans RC Sproul Jr confirmed in his own mind that he could get away with anything. Little wonder RC Jr went from bad to worse.
In spite of RC Sproul Jr's horrific track record of ravaging sheep, not to mention the numerous other scandals he's racked up since his 2006 defrocking, there remain some who speak of "restoring him." Those who argue for "restoration" always do so from a safe distance. That makes them cowards. They impose demands for "forgiveness" from others while taking no risk themselves. In effect they say, "Restore the wolf to the sheep pen. No need to worry that he's ravaged dozens of sheep. Just ignore those sharp fangs. I'm a fat tasty sheep too but no worries for me. I'm in another sheep pen far away." Worth repeating here is a comment from one of our readers:
"Every single time one of RC's flagrant sins shames the body of Christ, people gather online and predictably misapply the story of the righteous King David's great fall and restoration to RC (conveniently leaving out the part where David still suffered horrible consequences). David was a man after God's own heart, desperate to repent and reunite with his God; RC is after RC's own heart, and he has a long history to prove it. Commenters praise RC's humble language in his publicly written apologies. They are afraid of throwing a stone, even at a wolf. They feel the warm cozy feelings of giving a second chance to a villain they haven't and probably never will have the misfortune of meeting. It's cheap mercy given without risk and without discernment, and it puts the body of Christ in real danger. RC is not a backsliding Christian with a good heart who needs more loving confrontation. He's been given and has burned up far more precious chances than should have been wasted on him. He does not want to repent. He wants you to believe he has repented so you'll let him back in the sheep pen, AGAIN. Stop praying that God will turn this wolf vegetarian. Stop virtue signalling cheap forgiveness. Get your sling and staff."
We challenge anyone who argues that RC Sproul Jr should be "restored" to move to Fort Wayne, Indiana, join his Sovereign Grace Fellowship, and make him your pastor. Submit to the "pastoral authority" he will exercise over you and every member of your family (a verse he often reminds his members of is Heb 13:17, "Obey those who rule over you, and be submissive, for they watch out for your souls"). Check back with us in a couple years and tell us how it's working out for you. Based on our experience and dozens of other families we can tell you exactly how it'll turn out -- disastrously (unless that is you're an obsequious toady and do everything he demands without objection). It'll turn out as disastrously as it has for his own family: "For if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church?" So unless you're willing to step up to the plate and make that kind of personal commitment, stop telling others to "restore" RC Jr when you've got no skin in the game yourself.
No one who personally knew RC Jr and Denise Sproul believed it when he publicly slandered Denise some 9 years after her death -- baseless allegations which Denise can't defend herself. The reality though is Denise doesn't need a defense, especially when the one making the allegations is a pathological liar. In light of his Ashley Madison adultery account scandal, not to mention all the lies he's told about that and everything else he's faked "repentance" about, his projections against Denise are just further evidence of his mental pathology.
Since his lies about Denise Sproul weren't convincing, RC Sproul Jr is now attempting to outright cancel her. How hypocritical given that he's condemned cancel culture himself.
We won't be hypocritical ourselves and call on anyone to cancel RC Sproul Jr. However it's entirely biblical for Christians to refrain from supporting RC Sproul Jr in any way, other than to continue praying for his genuine contrition and repentance. Those who support RC Jr financially are aiding and abetting sin, which is bad enough. But those who continue calling for his restoration are aiding and abetting a wolf who, given further opportunities, will most assuredly ravage more sheep.
UPDATE March 9, 2022:
RC Sproul Jr has for many years used the nom de guerre "Coramdude" (e.g. his Ashley Madison account email address is coramdude@gmail.com). Today Coramdude repeatedly deleted large portions of his Wikipedia page. In each case one or more Wikipedia editors reverted his edits and accused him of vandalism and conflict of interest for removing substantiated and well-sourced entries.
Editing Wikipedia pages requires furnishing an explanation for each edit. RC Jr's first edit gives this explanation: "Removed inaccurate information put in by trolls and said family members seeking to harm my reputation."
This
has been the pattern -- blaming his adult children when there is zero
evidence for it. If anything the evidence shows they've steered clear of
his narcissistic delusions. Subsequent edit explanations include, "Removal of snark and false information," "Removed false information and false reporting sites," etc. After vandalizing his page 13 times Coramdude was blocked from Wikipedia for "Disruptive editing."